“What Egg Donation is All About”. An Interview with Leslie, Medical assistant & Senior Egg Donor Coordinator at WFI

Leslie began her journey at the Western Fertility Institute as an intern in April, last year. Throughout the process she became a Medical Assistant in April, and a Senior Egg Donor Program Coordinator. As Leslie said, she had a “very big teacher, Quiana”. She was taught about fertility and surrogacy during her internship; before that, she never thought about working in this field.

A medical assistant helps nurses and doctors, and has several other functions. Leslie spends most of her time doing blood work. As she said, taking blood is not just a routine job: “I am kind of a confidant for surrogates and egg donors. I try to construct a personal relationship with them. I know their journey, their troubles, their history…”.


She continuously follows the journey of the egg donors. Leslie is by their side for all the steps of the procedure. There are many reasons why a woman enters in the egg donation process. As Leslie pointed out: “Whatever the reason why a woman is making this act, she needs to be informed more about the process of the egg donation. She is giving a part of herself away, it is a part of them”. She makes sure they are informed of the possible connections that egg donation can construct.

As she explained to me, every donor receives a different protocol. In general, the medication that a donor has to follow takes about 10 days. Every 1 or 2 days, the donor has to make a blood analysis at WFI in order to see if the follicles are growing (2mm each day). When the eggs are “ready”, the egg retrieval occurs. At WFI they are performed every Wednesday and Friday. The whole procedure takes about 2 hours: 30 minutes to prepare the patient for the surgery, 15 minutes for the retrieval itself, and the time left for the recovery. “We wait until the patient feels comfortable, we control the situation and make sure everything is fine”. Leslie follows donors throughout all the journey.

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She works also with the surrogates, but the relationships she constructs with them are quite different. If a donor is going to WFI every 2 days, the surrogates spend less time at the clinic. The relationship that Leslie is building with the donors is more intense because they spend more time together talking about egg donation, the medications, but also about the everyday life. She said that probably this connection she feels is related with the age and the experience that the patient has. In comparison to the donors, the surrogate already knows what a pregnancy is, they know what to expect from it. “They had experienced the gestation, so they know what will happen to their body. Yes, they ask a lot of question about the medication, and in general, about all the medical procedures. I make sure donors understand what egg donation is all about. I make donors understand the procedure. I try to explain to them all the information I know; it is a way to keep them more involved. They can trust us. They become basically family with us”.

I asked Leslie her favorite aspect of her job, she mentioned: “My favorite part is connecting with people. I love helping people with their journey. I am part of their story, I am helping them to create a family”.

Sonia, a 3rd Party Coordinator: A Liaison Between Different Subjects

Sonia is the first employee of Western Fertility Institute that I have interviewed. I entered her office while she was filling out some documents for a gay couple. With 20 years of experience in the medical field, she mentioned she did not have any idea the extent the fertility industry had grown and the number of people that were becoming a part of it.

Sonia is currently a 3rd party coordinator at the Western Fertility Institute.
As a coordinator, Sonia wears many hats. She works with a vast variety of different people including, intended parent(s), egg donor and surrogates. She doesn’t just interact with them, she becomes the liaison between different figures within and out of WFI.  

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She follows and takes care about different aspects of the pathway, from the first match between parties throughout the journey and delivery. Communication is one of the important skills she needs to manage during the months. Every part of the process is separated from one another, but everything is interconnected, like in a puzzle. Anxiety, anticipation, timing, waiting, joy and happiness are just some of the emotions she has to balance with each patient she is working with.

Every story is different; every patient has their own reason why they’re here. Sometimes the IPs keep the surrogate updated. Sometimes not. I have to work and make sure that everything is going well, for all the parties involved in the process.”

I asked Sonia, what is it that she loves most about her job, she replied: “My favorite part is when the Intended Parents get the news they are having a baby”.

Field Notes

A month has passed since I have began working at the Western Fertility Institute. Whilst the access in the fieldwork was slow, the life within the clinic was frantic and constantly evolving, like it happens here everyday.  The people that cross the fertility clinic are different types, everyone with their own journey and story. There is the fertility staff composed by nurses, doctors, anesthesiologist and coordinators. The are patients in the clinic for various reasons: some to receive fertility treatments, whilst others offered their reproductive capabilities to  intended parents.

In this climax, the research project has been progressively revised, resized and adapted to the context in which I interact with daily. I have built a series of questionnaires designed to have an overview of people I’m interacting with: intended parents(s), egg donor and surrogates at their first experience and repeat egg donors and surrogates. The questionnaires are simply tools to understand the background of these people.

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As an anthropologist, I won’t just be using the questionnaires: indeed, I am conducting research with the ethnographic method. Doing “an ethnography” means several things. It means interviewing people, understanding their point of view, their thoughts and their reality. It also means using the so called “participant observation”. I have many occasions to observe the dynamics while I am at WFI. Since I am conducting a research within a fertility clinic, I will also interview the staff of Western Fertility Institute, because as presented in literature, the fertility staff plays an important role during the fertility treatment, not only for medical reasons. I will use the theoretical concept of hybrid technologies proposed by Laura Mamo (2007) to read the experiences of all the people who cross pathways within the fertility institute and undergo treatments.

Mamo L., 2007, Queering Reproduction. Achieving Pregnancy in the Age of Technosciences, Duke University Press.