Leslie began her journey at the Western Fertility Institute as an intern in April, last year. Throughout the process she became a Medical Assistant in April, and a Senior Egg Donor Program Coordinator. As Leslie said, she had a “very big teacher, Quiana”. She was taught about fertility and surrogacy during her internship; before that, she never thought about working in this field.
A medical assistant helps nurses and doctors, and has several other functions. Leslie spends most of her time doing blood work. As she said, taking blood is not just a routine job: “I am kind of a confidant for surrogates and egg donors. I try to construct a personal relationship with them. I know their journey, their troubles, their history…”.
She continuously follows the journey of the egg donors. Leslie is by their side for all the steps of the procedure. There are many reasons why a woman enters in the egg donation process. As Leslie pointed out: “Whatever the reason why a woman is making this act, she needs to be informed more about the process of the egg donation. She is giving a part of herself away, it is a part of them”. She makes sure they are informed of the possible connections that egg donation can construct.
As she explained to me, every donor receives a different protocol. In general, the medication that a donor has to follow takes about 10 days. Every 1 or 2 days, the donor has to make a blood analysis at WFI in order to see if the follicles are growing (2mm each day). When the eggs are “ready”, the egg retrieval occurs. At WFI they are performed every Wednesday and Friday. The whole procedure takes about 2 hours: 30 minutes to prepare the patient for the surgery, 15 minutes for the retrieval itself, and the time left for the recovery. “We wait until the patient feels comfortable, we control the situation and make sure everything is fine”. Leslie follows donors throughout all the journey.
She works also with the surrogates, but the relationships she constructs with them are quite different. If a donor is going to WFI every 2 days, the surrogates spend less time at the clinic. The relationship that Leslie is building with the donors is more intense because they spend more time together talking about egg donation, the medications, but also about the everyday life. She said that probably this connection she feels is related with the age and the experience that the patient has. In comparison to the donors, the surrogate already knows what a pregnancy is, they know what to expect from it. “They had experienced the gestation, so they know what will happen to their body. Yes, they ask a lot of question about the medication, and in general, about all the medical procedures. I make sure donors understand what egg donation is all about. I make donors understand the procedure. I try to explain to them all the information I know; it is a way to keep them more involved. They can trust us. They become basically family with us”.
I asked Leslie her favorite aspect of her job, she mentioned: “My favorite part is connecting with people. I love helping people with their journey. I am part of their story, I am helping them to create a family”.